Genuine Interest

Genuine Interest

Cafe WIM Sussex Drive 1n 70s, 80s and 90s was an unusual place, Wim.

I hear that quite often. Give me an idea why so.

We saw you standing at the door and instead of a polite, amicable chat about the rain, they are directed to the toilettes. Really unusual.

A restauteur has a genuine interest on a rainy day like to-day to mention toilette as a relief to the pushing in crowd through the door away from the rain. Falling water raises the urge to go there, wack out coats. To-day even this area is virtually dry. Seems a sensible thing, right?

 Oke, you got away from from 'unusual.'  Now about genuine interest after we escalated from impeccable meanners. Our children have already grown into well-formed human beings, what's up for us.

You are virtually young for me in your 40s or 50s. Well, I mentioned the purposeful walk, the pleasant smile, the use of the outside of the feet, or didn't I ? Look at models on shows. Yet, not complete for success.

We recall that you, Wim said it would open doors.

Sure and once inside follow-up on your curiosity about the firm, the product, the creators. What happens when YOU are approached with genuine interest? Your "x-ray" said: genuine, followed by feeling good. Once you connect you follow-up again.


Back home, put aside an absolute irrisistable tv-show. Read all you can about your contact. Ask knowledgeable questions the next time. Genuine interest stems from curiosity. People who received you now have a warm interest in you.

So, good manners is for business, as your millionnaire Mamma said?

You get ahead. You can grow a fortune. You can improve yourself. Iris my Partner vists the hopital everyday because she is curious about a special person there: genuine interest. A person stairing at the ceiling. No visits. Imagine. Tell me if you visit a complete stranger.

Yes. Iris is unbelievable. We think she has grown into a treasure for that person.

Exactly that. May I assume for all of us as well? 

Exactly that Wim.

Good night AND good morning Fine Guests and Staff Members everywhre. 


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07.09 | 19:54

Delightful. Contact, nice and gentle makes my Big Day.
Love you totally.

07.09 | 15:12

Whether blogs or books, your way with words is both whimsical and interesting. You are a delightful inspiration - please keep writing! Happy Birthday Dad 💝

04.05 | 10:09

Hello. I too would love a copy of the book. I spent many a happy afternoon and evening at Wim in my teens. It was a home away from home.

14.03 | 15:21

Where oh where or How do i buy the book ? i cannot find it :(

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